@shuttersparks @freemo Back when I was a young adult, people were still struggling with how to address women, eventually dropping "Miss", but still even now retaining Mrs. to some extent, along with Ms. It was the case that you couldn't even address a woman about anything, without knowing whether or not they were sexually available.
It was also true that many of my older relatives were quite distressed by people with long hair who they couldn't categorize in some very casual encounter, like walking down the street. And why did that matter?
My hope is that as the "need" to continuously pigeonhole people by gender fades we'll have much less need for the use of pronouns.
Meanwhile I agree with Phil that this is currently a hot button issue. For example, in a group situation where we were all going around the room introducing ourselves using our pronouns, I was madly trying to make mental notes so as to participate correctly in the discussion to follow. Thus, when it was my turn, I suggested that perhaps for practical purposes, we could all just use "they'. Maybe that should be the new normal. This was not well received, and I am currently back to being a somewhat floundering participant in such situations.
For Dr. Freemo, I'd say that I took your description initially as somewhat silly. But silliness is dangerously close to mockery (I think it is nearly impossible to be a comedian these days). Also, if taken seriously, addressing someone else as "Sir" has serious overtones of privilege and supremacy. I'd just admit that you didn't recognize that some would take actual offense but you are learning.
And, let's face it. Current controversies have put you under a microscope these days. That's a consequence of taking an active role here at Mastodon. Supporting openness and individuality while not squelching the aspirations of others is a complicated thing. Essentially an impossible conundrum for human behavior in groups, but worth not giving up on.
I suppose I should go back to my profile and add pronouns.
History always repeats itself it seems... this is sad, but i was thinking on these parallels as well.
How did I "miss" that.. that link literally agrees again with what I said. I quote the link:
" there is an effort to defederate from matodon.social (not something im promoting directly myself)"
yes, my approach to the truth is to tell it, and even the link you just posted verifies what I said is true...
Sadly as Eugen said he doesnt care about the facts, he cares about "optics"... Whats right is secondary to popular opinion.
Did you even read the article..
1) I have not spoken a word against his instance. In fact when asked I specifically said I do not support his instance being attacked. See here:
https://qoto.org/@freemo/109403741716691485
2) My article about him (linked below) only stated the facts, and I try to be objective. I show screenshots of all the toots, link to them, and include Eugen's response (which effectively confirms the content of the article to be true).
If the truth discredits Eugen, so be it, thats on him not on me.
https://jeffreyfreeman.me/eugen-rochko-ceo-of-mastodon-found-to-support-nazis-agenda/
I use the web client on my mobile, works great.
@Romaq Agreed, we need someone who isnt negligent running this shit.
There's been ripples in the wider Mastodon community for several days about mastodon.social's moderation, and people have been actively moving away from it. I hadn't seen talk about defederation, but it makes sense that people consider it if it's problems are being exposed one by one.
Same idea, yes... and unfortunately you can only access it on web yes.
Many threads mention me trying to get them defederated and link my article.. so people seem to have gotten that impression... But as I said that isnt my intent. My intent is to expose the truth, what consequences that has is on Eugen not me.
@Romaq That is something the community is doing. I have not asked nor supported the idea of defederating from M.S
@stux Been trying to talk to you about it... Have you not seen the drama?
Apparently thanks in part to my article about Eugen caving to a Nazi's misinformation campaign there is an effort to defederate from matodon.social (not something im promoting directly myself)... Several of his users are getting scared and starting to question if they should stay.
I may not want M.S defederated, but maybe Eugen should not cave to Nazis then...
To be clear I have no intention of seeing Mastodon.social defederated or any other instance. My goal is to bring this to light in the hope otherwes will realize what is happened and **not** defederate from us or continue to spread the lies. Hopefully it willknock some sense into Eugen
I do admit that bringing to light Eugen's negligance may very well have the effect of mastodon.social being defederated... thats more on Eugen than me however.
Anything that will die as a result of the truth coming to light deserves to die as Carl Sagan once said.
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