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@artemesia

I have read the article, and thats exactly why im confused. I have owned tons of business properties and never once seen or heard of such a tactic.. which leads me to think the article is compelte BS, thats kinda my point.

Maybe its not, id be really curious to hear anyone who expiernced this... but i asked several of my business colleagues and they to have never heard of such a thing.

@evacide

@thor To be fair knekkebrod is way way better than most toast :)

@drahardja Please stop ysing chatgpt as some representative AI and talk about it as AI as a whole.

LLM like ChatGPT are consensus based.. They are little more than autocomplete as you say (that uses effectively consensus).

That said LLM is not remotely representative of AI as a whole and much of AI would be inaccurate to describe as "autocompelte"

@artemesia

> If the bank employee takes an action that forces the bank to book a loss this year, on a loan where the book loss could have been postponed 10 or 15 years,

But this is my point, when I buy a property and am the landlord this never happens, the bank employee does even get a say... I bought the property, its my property, and I can charge what I want for it. Thats what is so confusing to me. In my many years in business I've never witnessed the bank that gave me the loan to buy a property is going to dictate what i price i have to lease my proeprty at, they dont even have the legal right to dictate that if they wanted to.

Maybe your talking about some other country with a messed up law other than the USA? "Maybe this is the norm int he UK or something and I dont know it?

@evacide

@niclas it depends a lot on how you raise them when their younger.

I see a lot of parents fail at those tactics, but its usually parents trying to improve their parenting once the kid is pre-teen when its far too late, dynamics are already established.

@fredbrooker Ha :)

@artemesia

I dunno, as a business man I've never once expiernced any of this.. Never even heard of a bank being able to dictate how i rent my own property or at what price.

@evacide

@fredbrooker Yes but its important to note that an introvert in the psych sense doesnt really mean "someone who prefers to be alone". Your earlier description was more accurate "Gets energy from being alone"... we introverts can still love a crowd and be very outgoing and engaging with people. We just need to recharge our batteries after enough of that.

@fredbrooker Yup, that lines up with what I know of the type and myself :)

@fredbrooker There I am :)

@artemesia

That still leaves an open question for me if taken at face value..

why would they punish a bank agent by refusing them their bonus for taking an action that ultimately hurts the bank. Banks are money driven, so seems really silly they would punish their own agents for doing something that causes them to make money off it.

Also this is not something I've ever heard of or expiernced, when i buy a property (and thus become a landlord) I've never heard of a bank being able to tell me what price im allowed to lease it at.

@evacide

@fredbrooker Awww my type (INTJ) isnt up there :(

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@realcaseyrollins Tahts why for me personally I'd stick with punishments that involve me taking something away that I give them. Maybe its desert, maybe its access to TV, depends on what they enjoy...

If i am a good parent then I should be someone who provides all sorts of things for my child to support their happiness, things that can be taken away too. If taking away what I give my child isnt enough of a punishment then maybe im not a great parent to begin with and need to reconsider what **I** do.

I know as a kid for me computer and internet was important. All my mom would have had to do was turn off the electricity or the internet and it would have been a pretty impactful punishment.

@evacide But that still leaves it an open question... if landlords arent making the most of their property by leaving it empty, then why would banks want to avoid the chance of profit as well.

@realcaseyrollins Depends on the age and the style of parenting.

My personal choice would be to take away privilages.. whether its TV time, or desert or something. Largely because I think that teaches the best real world lesson... people wont (and shouldnt) punch you in the face int eh real world, but they may stop doing your favors or helping you out.

Of course then you also have "time out", sending them to their room, hell just talking to them can go a long way. If you treat kids rationally and logically from a young age they are quite capable of reasoning from when they first aquire language skills. The reason most kids cant is because they arent treated as such for many years, so they never learn to reason and discuss. you can get 98% of the way there just talking to your kids respectfully and firmly from a young age.

@realcaseyrollins

For me to qualify as a beating (including spanking) it needs to inflict some level of pain and suffering as a learning tactic.. if its just physical contact but doesnt raise to the status of "pain" then i wouldnt say it qualifies.

@niclas @AmpBenzScientist