Friendship Lessons - At the beginning is aesthetics or assumptions.... and then GROWING the relationship....
- At the beginning is more the aesthetics or assumptions.... hopes..
-then there is the dispelling of the aesthetics or assumptions.... hope is less...
- then there is the realising of truth (that they are not 100% what you imagined or want them to be) or copy of want you want in your life... even some ugly trial error habits and details which are also part of growing, they come and go
- then for those that go a bit more of the distance, a great growing to like each other... and even polarity no matter who/what the person (the art of growing to like anyone since there are so many ways)
- then realising after years that it takes years and they are / were better than you imagined and just naturally we can't living in each others heads and shoes to realise it all so being easy helps...
Moral of story - Friendships is for life in whatever way and level - disconnection is for those that don't really understand or enjoy the ups and downs and differences... and also can't stand up for themselves often (runners)
Stick around, wait around when you don't have to and you'll be surprised what friendship means and how many different forms can come usually from you being ok with yourself first....
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More points here of becoming friends (in case you're doing a project on it or something !) the growth and mentioning some of the stages
OFTEN I FEEL THE GROWING PART IS MISSED
LACK OF SKILLS / KNOWING WHAT MAKING FRIENDS MEANS!
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http://freeschool.0id.org/friendship-evolution-of-being-friends/
1-similar thoughts on that + 2-info is not transparent + gullible people + 3-video how a country historicially regularly goes down and why!
@marathon0
1-Added is the unsaid rule about having to live and continue the way we do almost regardless of this or that lie or truth (leverage to living itself and havnig to 'make do' or catch up from the effect coming down the planned pipelines (we are in trauma from all that)... so at the top of the 'lie tree' is probably that governments and banks are taking care of us... 0_0
and from that everything else is imaginable as a lie...
....but get caught in some hype in the middle and it's rather like not seeing the long line of lies or waves made before it from the top and the living force for people to live for it / with it either way....
2-And then when the info is not transparent people end up guessing, even the best of us because we need to know or emotions come out and unfortunately we never really know.
In a way those uneducated or absent-minded from history's many wars or the plain gullible think you can pay people all your life and should still get a good service.... they don't expect worse or that other$ that don't care, can care!?!?!?!
LOLS!
3- OK A VIDEO.... This is a jolly good watch about ups and downs of life based on how life is governed. Has some good comments in it and even some metrics and measurements for running a country (and how it goes down naturally too !) .
StarTrek Day Today! Happy FirstContactDay !...
HAPPY #FirstContactDay #StarTrek !
This picture is a bit of a cheeky reply and remake of this post:
https://chaos.social/@matzekult/108079879373827137
I also this one
https://mastodon.bayern/@kojote/108080723670116463
All about self-control I think... more than tech filter or limits... just leave it be, don't use things... make it moer human if you do...
@amerika
Yeah - my take away from this is EVEN if someone gave me more data or water or anything I simply wouldn't use it accordingly as much as it's a habit and waste trap... FOR ME IT'S JUST LIKE TV / YOUTUBE I USE ONCE A DAY.... and then edit the shit out of that video and play it 100 times. Then upload it here for the 2 clips from it.... and make the text transcript from it, the still pictures, quotes etc...
A better eco-system of working. Small files using more formats with more effects / uses / types of thinking... all better than my time downloading more.
I limit the shit and then squeeze the juices out! And think that's what we need - the human control and then culture with that so when they release or entice us with next level or speed or candy- we're like nah I'm good with lightning speed I don't need super-ultra lightning
Everything could be ok as available, but learning out of our 'toy' phases to leave them be and opt from the real human work directly more often or what works and other people critique us with, not the virtual-temporary-overloaded so much.
I certainly test other on this - recently a 2hr talk measuring 1.4GB - no wonder youtube has over a day uploaded in 1hr (probably more now) and users treating things as disposable and 'nevermind' how big it is or taking care of the size of my camera pics 10mb EACH @ 12MP+ etc!! Crazy shit.
Thanks for your comment :)
@BowsacNoodle
I think obviously a rural person or person of the would eat the snake so I don't believe that last bit BUT the picture and whole thing 100% is actually from the top seen as this
I'D LIKE TO SEE THE PICTURE BUT WITH CASES WE KNOW LIKE:
- Hospitals
- Takeovers
- etc
where snakes are problem and the same snakes make similar snakes or feed the problem somehow (it's not the populous but the leaders)
So all those snakes could be all the big companies (climate or bigtech etc) and their all making problems when they HEAR and SEE our fear ...
That's why it's not good to tell bullies what you're afraid of and my work is about the people... (not making this about me, but people need to stop telling the wrong people!!)
Whoever made this make another!!
New generations normalise to the new perceived abundance.
@amerika
Say more! So filtering specific things or all stuff? How would it would if you have a main phone instead of PC? etc thanks.
My thinking is that 'ALL' data things can be ok but so much less than now, similar to how email is checked so often (but imagining this as bigger data transfers and checking)... so I'd think all is ok but just frequency of use / point of it / speed of more-human attention etc...
New generations normalise to the new perceived abundance.
I guess this is a double-check on consumption and data traffic....
Stuff that never switches and constantly is demanded... this is a type of death for what I think is unmeasured and deliberately less clear in it's calculation and infrastructure...
Probably similar to cars - once a system supports making these things, burning lots of energy and 'supplying' the waste then we can easily sit and we download, and delete, we think it's ok to drive sports cars and switching economy classes.
And now our media and new structures are uploading / syncing / streaming / crazy lots of things for crazy more things. Arguably extra things. Not saving planet, and perhaps could kill it less if not saving.
Becoming more disposable <--- that's cheap for the world like throwing away energy instead of being a bit mindful about it (conscious).
Especially making mistakes and redoing whole massive backups / files/processor intensive videos etc etc
New generations are less likely to remember or understand how basic it was back then and how it was such a major achievement just to get things to talk to each other and now it's like always talking and chattering computers.
How humbling 1 movie a day was (if you really tried). You were happy for each mp3 (not whole discographies)... wasn't even possible with dial-up for many things, so you had to choose your media! This had benefits but also I know I'm not perfect in what I'm saying and everything is skew or catching up or wasn't perfect then... but the fact other people put money into it perhaps shows something... where it was more of a geeky educational things before...
The lightweight net can be possible. And for me the possibility is more about funnelling work back into the human side of things (teaching / distribution) via live audio chats and real brain changing memorable / engaging things.
If we could keep it at megabytes and Gigabytes then we could economise like driving a small car rather than tank everywhere and wondering why America itself or American companies are doing war / buying out everything.
If we're always upgrading or increasing according to Maximums then the ratio of worth to humanity is questionable and can be less since often humans DO MORE with less as they appreciate it.
(what we are doing now in practice with the data and disposed bits are often waste or more precisely unconscious/less conscious spending of time / data streams)
If load and speed is used/abused then we become more dependant and our own time is also a cost factor in doing things from Bytes and Kb's per file (floppy disk for programs) to Mb's and Gb's (software, games movie downloads) to Tb's to Pb to Eb to Zb and beyond... and so you see we do similar things but ratio increases even for games we still would be happy playing or more creative in... yeah eye candy but also too many army games massive in their installations and online gaming...
...and who is supplying the infrastructure?
The people we don't like mostly!
Tech which is from corrupt people and from cost we haven't really computed in the doing of things - this would be a good study but I already know keeping massive operations running (even if you don't see the data going back and forth) is never going to be good when it comes to consumption of energy and time (at the same time ALL THE TIME).
My final point is that at least before it was turned off (almost as a whole structure or as a habit. And now we have energy drain all the time for questionable uses and filesizes for everything in every way people could find).
Minimal for the human way and ecological.
For #climatechange or whatever. Any of the above reasons are a more of a measured way than assuming its ok to consume all you can eat #computer streams, #data, #web. #technology etc..
Hard to talk people out of their expectations to use toilet paper... (about climate change talk and real change)
Updated here at this link with a few more added and different layout.
http://freeschool.0id.org/toilet-paper-replacements/
@Hamishcampbell
I was wondering who/what "akt-tech" was but realised it was probably misspelled "alt-tech" - hehe- iif I'm wrong it will be hard to ease this :)
I noticed the deathcult thing scrolling down the posts - guess it's about right and many names but culture and incentives in xyz ways yes, 100%. People not knowing the death part I guess will never get it as it is rather indirect sometimes and more siphoning or killing energy, time, indirectly killing... well we are civilised now and don't like to see the dead body's so we let them (s / others) limp off and die somewhere else, not under our noses or same spot of where they were duped!
That reminds me to write about #climatechange too as I don't think the civilised understand they can't have the same luxuries and change climate .... more on that here,,,
bit of a laugh if you like, while honestly practical...
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/108058752291741727
Disposable Internet... Deletable Time Investment... a temporary space made from disposable energy and electrons...(?) Finding a bit more real-human ways as data retention containers... means humans practising themselves as the containers more often(?)...
THANKS FOR READING / INVESTING TIME IN ME
One day your account is going to be gone, deleted, moved on...
so it's important to judge each post by time and not ALWAYS what is virtual - this post included.
Although it is real to some extent it could also be 'deleted tomorrow' too -AND THAT'S THE REALITY ALSO
FEELS GOOD TO GET KUDOS...
BUT MUST TO GET MORE INTO REAL-LIFE INTERACTIONS AND OTHER FORMS OF FREEDOM REALITY
(NOT JUST THE DISTANT SIMILAR PICTURES, TEXT, VIDEO ALL THE TIME OR HOPING PEOPLE WILL INVEST TIME IN ME IF DO THINGS BUT GET LITTLE BACK....)
So learning but possibly faster when transferring to posts and posting measurably rather than detail nobody will see.... LIKE THIS TEXT PERHAPS
Though MASTODON'S experience I think it's possible for people to find each other (which also I shouldn't overrate) and simply to go for what creates more long-lasting human-real reality as longer-lasting containers themself.
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( This is me speaking aloud / sharing a bit after realising I spent a few days on writing a few posts in #Mastodon,,, Feel free to shorten it as a reply for others just for a laugh but do get the points in there)
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" Seems important to me to say this as I'm sometimes building this account like it's going to be around forever or valuable to someone... and it's not... well not always... and as always low-chance anyone cares enough to modify their life so deeply or isn't involved with their own too deeply to realise some obvious things (like investing time in others is part of the way 100%) and even deal with any hypocrisy more happily!
(if we want to get together then we have to talk deeply / directly / personally a lot more - otherwise I see it as a flaw in us and by design in #Mastodon striving for freedoms / helping in basics that are a constant discussion to uplift our minds )
So yes I'm doing this for myself but I've got to try more other ways perhaps and people to move into the real world a bit more than the constant temporary-virtual "
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SUMMARY
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A temporary-permanent illusion
No need to build up too much / expect too much
Measurably just another time consumption education-entertainment thing with occasional comments in between
Not always going to be taken seriously even though I'm fully into reviving life.
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THANKS FOR READING / INVESTING TIME IN ME
Video search ---> from browser search bar....
Add search engine... then use browser box to search these:
For #PeerTube videos--->
#SepiaSearch
https://sepiasearch.org/
For #YouTube videos---->
#Invidious
https://invidious.snopyta.org/search?q=
Follow Invidious here:
@invidious
Enemies yesterday, friends today. The end is the means.
https://nitter.42l.fr/ggreenwald/status/1504898343889166343#m
#Assange It's important to note that Julian is being persecuted for revealing US Army war crime! We wouldn't know of this particular slaughter (on purpose) if it hadn't been leaked!
https://nitter.42l.fr/wikileaks/status/1505335918986731520#m
There is no such thing as a backdoor that only lets the good guys in. Together with Tresorit, @threemaapp and Tutanota, we are calling on EU policy makers to rethink anti-encryption proposals that would introduce backdoors in encryption platforms: https://protonmail.com/blog/joint-statement-eu-encryption/
Mastodon users filtered by their country / cities ?
What do you think about filtering #Mastodon users by their cities / locality in the interface? (much like Geocities had?)
(and having it optional as visibility via checkbox option)
I can see clear uses +/- (and both at the same time)... but also highlights for me ---> "How to defend use-cases when a tool allows both good / bad usage"
So in this case locality-based interface it could be
--> (positive) for sharing and finding people instantly
--> (negative) for ****ing and finding people instantly !!! <---
I think that applies to ANY of our advanced tools!!!!
WOW WHAT A DILEMMA!
I'm unsure how to solve that... Happy to hear on that before anything
It's about changing / opening our minds...
I give people time and I thnk that's the difference to others online who really don't have or give time and give up on people really easy... (don't mean to be competitive, no put-downs, just I more dedicate time to others and weave us together).
So you don't even have to read any of this because EVERYTHING needs time + communication and without that a lot is broken and even less human even if it's for good...
Just follow and put notifications on to TEST MY FEED.... the rest below is just over-info for most poeple.
Open Learning School or Freedom University...
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A lot you might be at length and depth, but if you're easy about it, you can take the best and even take me along to understand life with others!
To learn and do everything practically! (this is a practical living (and gets stuff done as much as we can).
Fan of Fediverse!
Quick Look - peace-loving work / services:
█ Mini-Podcast (few mins each, examples below)
█ Picture remixes / video remixes
█ Lessons without being too 'teacher' about it. Teacher has teeth for eliminating doubt.
█ Food for thought as gentle soul also.
█ Unique ideas - often impossible for professionals (they are burdened by financial repsonsibility and therefore associational risk in saying things). I'm more diverse and occasionally direct (with respect, though I don't shy away from reminding people).
█ Not too embarrassing to say "I don't know" but can still chase things.
█ More responsive than casual users usually because people think having 'job' is enough in life. I say it's not! And even faimily is of no use if it's only getting worse (in everything!).
Podcast Examples:
1. Gary Ackerman's thoughts on AI
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111867522723922385
2. The Little Prince book
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111845561003150354
3. Fantasy genre from a fan's perspective
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/111845709367492677
I help people create audio / edit educational audio / podcast / music / visual short videos / transcript text
+ I like to add a bit humour while being quite strict in my own politics (opinions) but open / inviting for others to tell me what I should do if they can explain more than just a short comment (I don't mind it's healthy for me at least if you have logic and can stand yourself explaining).
FreeSchool is about Learning towards Freedom (which is about Uniting everyone slowly, even "1 by 1"... Easy with The Fediverse!
Not virtue signalling here only, but practise of EVERYTHING as we go. Judged by getting in contact (many have) and having courage to communicate (or seeking it from others is ok, EVERYONE needs a bit of courage or hand-holding to make big personal changes). Who else is there for example if family doesn't understand?
Learning and watching can be good and staying out of people's way, BUT better is doing something every day and helping each other with some tough decisions / lessons... and then being bold enough to do them. 1... 2... 3 that is all that's needed.
Let my posts do most of the talking.
Put me on notification (click bell that appears after follow ia accepted) and if it's not interesting switch off after and tick me off the list of potential people to follow daily!
Media version of my posts here... open link for later... good for visual scrolling version and judge me on that I don't mind...
https://qoto.org/@freeschool/media
I'm usually impressed with my media gallery as I work on posts a lot usually or hit the "Aha!" moments and capture it (other people may forget it for years, not me!).
Freedom is about *making it work together* better like using #Mastodon on the #Fediverse daily for better platforms with more #bestpractices and 'best' people to help us which I kind of collect here and
when it's #1 comment!
I am measurably better because I reply and stick to everything to the end(!)
No cancelling friendship suddenly without saying why or being moody!
Freedom is to Learn, Respect and Love eventually and ️to Unite!
Practically it's also like Tetris - add yourself to the puzzle and watch it all happen...
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talk more on Mastodon and the Fediverse and puzzle it all out using better ways to less use the other bad commercial / extractive people...
L£$$ of the less caring people like the ggl's / ytb / gmail / mainstream communication points etc who are offering lots of space 'free' and it's not free of peace there.
We GIVE to real people (TIME NOT JUST MONEY).
There's no buy-in solution - we have to make it with selotape or whatever we have - it's not shameful to bring whatever you have.
FreeSchool is terminology put together from many good things from past (coined in 1950's/60's. I / we become it eventually through being.
It's a movement for Freedom via Learning it all (learning self included and less active stuff) and doing the learning *together* --> https://wikipedia.org/wiki/Freeschool.
I encourage you warmly to participate with me as a I have time and then spiral out naturally to others (we are part of humanity and so naturally a sort of evangelism or ecological pyramid of life as we choose to spread lesser suffering while accepting consuming is part of it).
Less-commercial in orientation (in everything) and happy to think / work for free.
Naturally you will hesitate if someone is sure of themself or ok standing on shoulders what we copy do the best from humbly but not too sterile either.
Based on just emotions ruins almost everything, which seems very common - very ungraceful - so don't disconnect... do it gracefully at least!
A "school" of thought is here you can interact / ask and make best together as free/low cost as possible.
Even a bad answer you can take best from (of course I won't know all your situation when I suggest something but I don't need to answer 100% - you also need to help me!).
Leave perfectionism, we are all imperfect humans! Let's do it... Choose something ANYTHING and keep the thoughts rolling together...!
All content under the Creative Commons license CC-BY-SA-NC. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-sa/4.0/?ref=chooser-v1 Thereby, ideally, only using tools and resources that are #FLOSS #OpenSource. #nobot