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How do we deal with a bully without becoming a thug ourselves?... (non-violence... NVC) 

How do we deal with a bully without becoming a thug ourselves?

- Scilla Elworthy
Fighting with non-violence...

Topic = Gene Sharpe's "Dictatorship to Democracy" booklet


+ CZ subtitles

I cannot keep this to myself. There is a website (radio.garden) where you can listen to radio stations all over the world for free. No log in. No email address. Nothing.

When the site loads, you are looking at the globe. Slide the little white circle over the green dots (each green dot is a radio station) until you find one you like.

I have been listening to this station in the Netherlands and it absolutely slaps. I have no idea what they're saying but the music is fantastic.

I finished stitching this mandala this morning. It's what I've been doing with my hands during work calls and while decompressing from a big project.

Tempted to stitch a queer-affirming quote around the outside, but not sure what that should be.

#embroidery #fiberarts #lgbtq

"Adding highway lanes to deal with traffic congestion is like loosening your belt to cure obesity." - Lewis Mumford in 1955.

We’ve known this for a long time, but we’ve put a massive amount of money, space, time & energy into pretending we don’t know it.
#InducedDemand #lawofcongestion #traffic #congestion #cities #JevonsParadox #transportation #mobility #urbanism #urbanplanning #cars

Hello Fediverse!

I'm very excited to be offering a few precious things, which I wonder if some of you may find helpful, relevant, supportive, nurturing, useful:

- Empathic listening, empathy practice
- Listening, transforming and healing for anger, shame, guilt
- Support in figuring out your vision, purpose, goals, and bringing them to reality in a way that's within your capacity, taking into account strengths and limitations
- Mediation and conflict engagement, in personal and organizational situations
- Working with transforming patriarchal conditioning, deep wounds, beliefs, behavior patterns that bring us pain and block us from addressing needs and achieving purpose
- Human centered nonviolent power-with-people organizational systems, (or: how to work together, including within your Free Software project)
- Making effective collaborative decisions that everyone can wholeheartedly embrace
- So much more... ^_^

Why:

- I believe in a world that works for all
- Bringing these things to people is directly tied to my vision and purpose
- I enjoy giving in these ways <3
- I really really wish to gain more experience in these things
- I deeply care about the Fediverse, Free Software, Free Culture, power differences, bridging gaps between people & groups

Boost to help me reach people? <3

@garius there's one big difference:

The #fediverse is not a platform, it's a protocol-based community

Move from platforms to protocols

#activitypub

Jitsi Chat (Audio / Video) now has Breakout rooms !... 

Meet News Reminder:
Jitsi Chat (Audio / Video) now has Breakout rooms !

Test here (or change the end part of link to any chatroom name!)
meet.jit.si/chataboutit

Zoom had MAJOR advantage in this for ages to allow small groups to branch off and come back.

For those that have done T-Group meetings or anything with 10+ people, a breakout room is for groups to go off and then come back after specific smaller chat circles or just more manageable smaller sharing circles and sharing experience.
Groups can be recalled into main room where host speaks again to everyone before maybe the next round...
Anyway also check out T-Group meetings en.wikipedia.org/wiki/T-group_ and happy to say more.

Jitsi Meet + T-Group meetings
= Social Power / Power of Minds / Whatever you want

People don't need enormous cars; they need respect... - Donella Meadows 

People don't need enormous cars; they need respect.
- Donella Meadows

My kind of quote... hard for people understand or they forget when buying *anything* to really check themselves/actions habits.

Donella Meadows, the lead author of the LTG report:

"People don't need enormous cars; they need respect. They don't need closetsful of clothes; they need to feel attractive and they need excitement, variety, and beauty. People need identity, community, challenge, acknowledgement, love, joy. To try to fill these needs with material things is to set up an unquenchable appetite for false solutions to real and never-satisfied problems."

How do we deal with a bully without becoming a thug ourselves?

- Scilla Elworthy
Fighting with non-violence...

+ CZ subtitles

Topic = Gene Sharpe's "Dictatorship to Democracy" booklet

Q. How to save the world? A. Sacrifice a few and Save the rest! 

Q. How to save the world?
A. Sacrifice a few and Save the rest!

(Enjoy the fact you you need to enjoy while you can together)

Lessons from Pingus (Lemmings version well done and in good humour)

"Not everybody was saved but still pretty good!" (Losses are part of the game and need for strategy compels people to also accept death)

Gene Sharp - Methods of resistance / actions / things to think about etc... 

Gene Sharp - Methods of resistance / actions / things to think about etc...

198+ to consider against violence and towards democracy.

How To Start to solve / mitigate / repel / resolve things...

Booklet better

"Co-opting the other sides, no need for wars between victims and victims..."

Documentary: How To Start A Revolution
(or maybe How to resolve Capitalism better... ). Short clip at 19.26 about NVC, Gene Sharp etc

Booklet better

@slothrop The internet needs to be dumb again. I remember when double click before they were bought by Google got caught tracking people across multiple sites and it was a huge scandal for about two weeks. Internet advertising was a billion dollar industry before ad exchanges. There is no reason we can't go back to that, and it will have the added benefit of making local news a viable business model again.

@freeschool so u do a press realease saying u laying of xx ppl, ur companie shares boom but, that powder doesnt last forever so u need a new trick

I lived to code for another day 😭 At least some people get Emails at 2 AM. Others go to the office and find out their ID/login card for the building is blocked. That is how many found out when Google, Meta, and Twitter locked them out. So, if you will fire me, send me an Email or text. Then, I can go back to sleep instead of getting ready and then commuting. Comic credit: twitter.com/Nasser_Junior/stat

A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for. -- Grace Hopper

(My Dream / Wishlist) Craigslist or similar Noticeboard...Mastodon?... 

(My Dream / Wishlist) Craigslist or similar Noticeboard...Mastodon?

Very Basic / noticeboard system by area... almost as 'idiot' as possible without many bells...
Err.. maybe like Mastodon?
Or Like my previous ideas of polls with option too see results by person who vote to then hit it off or send as group email...

Otherwise something like
Craiglist.com / craigslist.org/
( without the big tech / clever code )

Picture says: Wealth of Sharing Life
(Time and Help) Give a little, Get a little

We spend £50 billion on defending us from external enemies. One of the highest spends on defence in the world.

All the while, we struggle with internal demons, many created by #tory ideologies and the greed of their advocates.

We could do much better...

Renationalise the #NHS in full

Match state #pensions to the Living Wage

Stop state subsidies to #oil #pharma and many others who bribe the #tory machine to legislate in their favour and give them massive tax breaks

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