@skells @11112011 That's learning ;)
That's the different mentality I mean: You win or you learn, if you have a winner's mindset...
If you have a losers mindset, if you lose, you think you did something wrong... Maybe you have to train harder, maybe your mind wasn't in the right plays...
A winner says: haha oh shit, I didn't see that one coming... And just accepts that they have and did what it takes... They just got surprised by something they didn't (and couldn't) know...
Lol Lesson learned and new goals set...
There is no loss, there is only gain - progress, options to improvement, moving forward, growing and becoming better...
Maybe that's it: never think you made it, you're there... there's a constant forward drive... There's only the road, no destination, and the only direction is forward - and it's not a sprint, it's a marathon..
Finding the pace and timing, the flow of the universe - and move along with it effectively - not forcing it, not being dragged, but in tune, in pace - being part of it...
A winner is surrounded by a universe of helpers and allies... a loser is surrounded by demons and ideas that slow hom down, make him heavier and lose track...
It is all in the mind... minds can be trained, but it surely helps if the mind is already natural wired like that...
But that's the difference: feeling like ur pushed forward, lifted and supported - carried by the universe...
Or carrying the burdens of the world on your shoulders and be like a magnet to all the bad things happening arround you, and attach them to your perception of self... lol Like iron balls sucking in all the scrap metal - saturn
Or like a sun, radiant, light - fast and fluid as mercury :)
haha - so its more about archetypes lol... planets, metals, part of the year, gods, spirits, landscapes you relate to...
Know thyself, and aim to become the best possible version thereoff
Everyone has a natural potential... Start there xD