@Phancypants Yeah, I've been in plenty of those spaces too, and now I actively try to avoid them. I get that those folks typically have their armor up because they've been hurt in the past, but in my experience, they're usually just hives of endless drama.

I much prefer the queer groups that are welcoming and inclusive instead of suspicious and exclusive.

That said, I'm not fully on-board with UFoI, but I definitely have waaay more respect for it than the lazy reactionaries who block it without doing any research.