@PaladinQuinn I'm glad to have joined Mastodon. The window into another's struggles is enlightening. I can't say I've felt exactly the same thing, but something similar in my Judaism and antisemitism.

I am Ashkenazi- so I tend to be 'White' when it is convenient and 'Jewish' when that is convenient- positive or negative. What ever is best for the third party, that's what I am, regardless of its effect on me.

Again, it is not exactly the same and I won't pretend to know exactly how this specific element of living as a Trans person is.

I'm sorry that you have to go through this, though. It is an injustice that you should not have to suffer.