@freemo What prompted me is you faved an unrelated toot of mine. Jeff just had an extravaganza of "if x, is y part of the fediverse" and since i was in that, your fav reminded me i heard you two don't talk. I am just a social animal that finds those things interesting.

@admitsWrongIfProven Ahh ok.. I mean, I dont think i have anything against him. PRetty sure I blocked him for wasting my time over some conspiracy theory nonsense with vaccines or something when he wouldnt disengage.

@freemo It is hard to disengage... i constantly worry if i do my new name honor ^^

@admitsWrongIfProven Ha! I mean you gotta prioritize your time somehow.

@freemo Absolutely, people don't ever stop to use it as they please. The ones one wants to use it are too few, by far.

@admitsWrongIfProven Typically its the people with the least value who want the most of your time. The reason is because they cant get anyone elses time so when they can **force** your time out of you they will, its the only way anyone will give them any time.

@freemo And then there are timid people that absolutely should have your time but hardly even ask, hard to discriminate.

Human psychology one o one, you remember the annoying things, but the tender nice people that actually ask instead of pushing are forgotten.

Like the thing when driving... *I* am late, it's the others fault. When others are driving agressively, it's their personality.

My mind is playing tricks on me... that reminds me, i should listen to some iron maiden before i go to sleep!

@admitsWrongIfProven Well thats kinda my point. The ones who deserve your time tend to get it without asking from people who see their worth. So they dont have as much of a need to ask for your time because they arent socially deprived of quality interactions.

@freemo I think a lot of people that are worth our attention are deprived of quality interactions. It is worth to keep an eye out, the unempathic nature of our current society produces a lot of lonelyness.