I just had a scary conversation with someone I love. He used to hate trunp and all that means but has slowly been going down a rabbit hole. I've tried to talk sense to him but I can't seem to speak with authority (even on subjects I'm confident in) or without emotion. (Man, my Mom was so good at that. She became more articulate the angrier she became.)
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But today, I became seriously worried. He believes that we are being invaded. He thinks trump is the victim of a witch-hunt (I told him that's because trump is a witch.) That we will be removed from our homes and that Biden is the authoritarian, not trump. He truly believes that people are coming here to seek retribution.
I'm lost. He's not following qanon but he might as well be.
I want to cry
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True story: my husband was on the phone with a tech support worker in the US shortly after Biden was elected. We (and the rest of the world) were elated. But this young woman was terrified. She said, “now I live in a communist country.” My husband asked if she thought 🇨🇦 was a communist country. He said, communism is all about the government owning all businesses in a country. Even with Biden as president, the US is still a capitalist country — so as far from communism as 🇨🇦 is. 🤷🏼♀️
That's what my nephew said too! Wow.
When I said capitalism sucks he said it's all there is and there's nothing bad. He actually said that he must not be working hard enough or he'd be rich. He works ALL THE TIME.
Sigh.
Shoveling that crap into people’s minds — instead of an educated understanding of what the differences are in each of the political ideologies — keeps people from thinking they deserve better than indentured servitude.
I think well. I can write well when I give myself time. But I cannot seem to speak well. Never was able to articulate my thoughts well.
Maybe I'll write to him.
Yes, and it's sad that people don't understand what the differences are in political ideology and economic systems. But our educational system sucks
Here’s a good article with some practical advice. And there’s another one I just need to look up…
@KimberlyN @Mary625 Yes, I have been learning and trying various methods to reliably help people come to better conclusions, including this one. It is also called Attitude Inoculation, and this website has more resources about it. https://cognitiveimmunology.net/