what bothers me most is that i run out of "safe spaces" where i'm not bothered by people who don't care for the culture they are gentrifying.
it may be nostalgia, but i'm using the net for >20 years, the bullshit has really gotten worse (parallel to real life i might argue). sure, there was the occasional asshole and drama, but it was easy to deal with it: don't feed the troll, if it got out of hand kickban. which solved 99% of the problems. you had your corner of the net where you ruled as you like and everybody was ok with that. with the recent arrivals to the net, the modus operandi is to burn and salt everything with which you disagree.
@dielan may well be the best course of action. it shouldn't be bothering me that much ![]()