@thor sorry, depression is back, i'm kind of assuming everybody is an asshole.
i think while quite good from the technical aspect, openbsd has a "we're better than you". it shows with things like "we're breaking configs because it's technically better now" and "every other MTA is good with this, but it's not in the RFC, so we don't allow it".
of course, it's their software, they can do as they please with it. i just don't think it's a very good approach and don't like the attitude of supremacy some users/devs show.