@bonifartius @ParadeGrotesque you have to keep in mind that humanity is really divided up between leaders and followers. it doesn't sit well with the democratically-minded but it's just the way it is, and the only way you change that is re-engineering the species. (which isn't even desirable imo, too many cooks spoil the stew. you need strong, benevolent leadership and loyal followers to get anywhere that doesn't leave people immiserated and exploited. as a nation, as a movement, as a company, it doesn't matter.) if you don't give the followers someone to follow and something to believe in, they'll be snapped up by cultists and revolutionaries who can offer something you refuse to. american buzzwords and brainwashing aside, most people do not want that much freedom and forcing it on them is a guarantee they'll be neurotic and miserable. all human societies have been de-facto oligarchies and there is a reason for this.
part of how They maintain control in my home country is by keeping people too scatterbrained to work together -- they don't just program people to be untrustworthy, selfish sacks of shit, growing up as an american you're also essentially taught that it's your right and duty to have an Opinion on as many subjects as possible, and that anyone who doesn't make up their own mind is inferior -- a loyal follower is actually just a useful idiot. the end result is such fragmentation and quarreling nobody is willing to work together, even if there were anyone trustworthy to work with. you don't have to actually think critically (and that's dangerous after all, according to the NYT) or have any subject area knowledge whatsoever, just take any random stand and don't budge no matter how wrong and pig-ignorant you are, because you'll be seen as weak if you admit you're wrong about anything ever. the system then uses the media to prime people for beliefs that are crucial to the maintenance of the regime (burgerland is the land of the free, we have the most POWERFUL MILITARY in the GALAXY, xi jinping and his chinese communist apparatchiks want to invade and enslave your children in their dastardly uyghur blood mines, Putin Doesn't Have a Soul, and so forth), and lets them make up their own mind on everything else. the end result is americans are the most brainwashed people on earth, and the most adamant that they are FREE goddammit and they think all their beliefs are totally their own. it's far more effective than USSR-style propaganda, and it affects many aspects of life, including relationships. (there's a reason americans are so willing to break up with or disown each other over stupid fucking politics.) it's a horrible state of affairs that i would only wish on our worst enemies.
you know that picture of Guy Fawkes masks being mass-produced in some asian sweatshop for the US market? that's the system in a nutshell.
when you try to implement a democracy, you effectively hand the game to the most devious and amoral psychopaths around, who are also guaranteed to be the worst possible people to run any given society, because elections are nothing more than a test of who is best able to manipulate the population. america is a cautionary tale of what you're ultimately doomed to become if a patriotic leader (a putin, a xi, an orbán, a stalin, even a lukashenko in a pinch) doesn't seize control of the system first -- and there's no guarantee whatsoever you won't get a mussolini or a hitler. hell, even if you don't, it takes a certain degree of ruthlessness to be willing to seize control of a nation in the first place, democratically or otherwise -- there's no question (at least not among russians) that stalin was a hero who saved his people and bought them a few decades of relative peace and prosperity unlike anything they'd known under the tsar, but he was also an absolutely frozen-souled bastard who spent much of his career up to his armpits in blood, and probably the only reason he was an effective leader was because russia at the time genuinely really was full of people who needed killing (especially after, you know, the Wehrmacht invaded). you'd never want a guy like that taking over an already peaceful and stable nation, he'd turn it into an abattoir. so you have to be REALLY fucking lucky for democracy to be wound down in a non-nightmarish manner.
llike, shit, just look at the baltic countries that were so eager to break away from the USSR and have Freedom™ -- they're all now under the total control of pro-western quislings whose only goal in life is to be a pleasurable fucktoy for the US and EU elites that want to rape their homelands til they bleed out, and their populace is a hysterical wreck driven into a frenzy of hatred and fear of russia to maintain the illusion that NATO is their friend.
it's why china's authoritarianism and putin/united russia's meddling with elections don't really bother me, it's that or the state is taken back over by parasites and quislings.