@taylan the most frightening thought is that some of the friends who been/are girls in my youth would today probably be labeled trans as they didn't fit the pink girly motive. none of them is trans today, as far as i know.
even the one person i know who has doubts about gender hates the gender circus and things like hormones/puberty blockers for kids.
i think 99% of the things happening are internalized misogyny.