I wish I wasn't so aggressive.
I wish I didn't push people away.
I wish I didn't push people away.
What are some more pro-social ways of coping with aggression etc?
@Hyolobrika depends on the situation
Like, if I came across someone promoting violence against their political opponents again (changeling), or promoting groomer/egg shit (Arcana), or promoting violence against a different race (the far-rightoids and poasties) what should I do?
Actually, scratch that first and last one. Responding to aggression with aggression is perfectly fine. If people don't like me for it, well, sucks to be them I guess
. And anyway, they only didn't like it when I responded to a trans person that way.
Actually, scratch that first and last one. Responding to aggression with aggression is perfectly fine. If people don't like me for it, well, sucks to be them I guess
. And anyway, they only didn't like it when I responded to a trans person that way.
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@Hyolobrika @straw the mute button is a glorious invention :)
Yeah, that's true. I like the feeling of getting back at them though.
Muting feels like running away, weak.
Muting feels like running away, weak.
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@Hyolobrika @straw you let people live rent free in your head. "getting back" can also mean "be as shitty".
I guess I'll try and mute from now on, and get off the fediverse when I feel myself getting stressed.
