@lydiaconwell It isnt that either, its how federation works. One instance wont federate with another until there is at least one user on the server following a user from the other.
If that is already the case then it is likely a block.
@lydiaconwell Its easy to forget really since the fediverse feels like one monolithic thing sometimes.
@freemo @lydiaconwell
I did not actually know that. I too had subscribed to the "it's just one of those not-worky things" theory.
@digital_carver @freemo I love the "it's just one of those not-worky things" theory.
@freemo Ah! I actually already knew that but my brain decided to store it far far away into my memory pit where I could never reach it.