The core tennant of QOTO is to be respectful to people, always has been. Doubly so to members of marginalized groups... no one on QOTO will be making fun of you for anything.. they will, at worse, walk away rather than attack you.
As for the greater UFoI I am doing my best to pick instances to kick it off that will be respectful of others, as I said, instances you can be happy to interact with I hope.