@gabriel
I guess it starts with one being alone or as individual somewhat as a decision or what you stand for, and then hope for something with others from time to time... so I'm personally waiting.

Guess my trouble is this type of paradox as people want to be together while being protective about self or acting more alone not to trust. When really it's that kind of do or die rather than waiting because we're not going to do anything that extreme anyway. Do some art of make a film and that's about it... So right now I think it's better to go all in for trust (and even asking intentions of another to get that as well) and then just jamming to the maximum all you can agani asking along the way...
Or else we'll basically timeout or 404 before we do anything or show each other our gems / things that help optimise others / inspire things to bloom.

Here's my efforts so far but anything you personally need without these website-isms then do let me know. These are just to represent what I think could / should happen without needing front-end shows all the time.
http://freeschool.0id.org/?s=audio

I'm keen to get things done a bit more relative to 1 other person and that can be easy for me. But you (personally and you plural) have to just go along with a person and see where they are really genuine... time is ticking I feel.

About control -
I guess you can rely on your opponents to bleed control (actually that would be maybe good to explain a bit) though I'm also conscious not to explain that weakness too much (again DM perhaps) and naturally over-extend but I think it's becoming higher stakes and even less room to manoeuvre so I prefer really doing it now and doing multiple things weaving in my motivation and types of work (group work, note taking, lots of stuff re-funnelled into itself, or just live work and talking making sure everyone is getting what they want at the end).

Overall I'm interested in doing something because I know nothing is going to happen until it does and pushing helps people can just get on with something hoping it's not a bad actor which I can represent in myself well doing mostly 'nothing' most of the time. So using people with time is key - either talking for myself or others.

You can imagine this is a bit of a dilemma when it comes to individual and others but overall doing what we individually do well is basically going to do it at the same time letting someone else for a bit and doing, testing, talking, merging effort at the end (a kind of weaving or flow partner work around each other energy).

I'd like people to let people run riot in their house and then do clen up after (like painting art seems messy but is ok and better faster sometimes). Either way test me and yourself.

It's hard to trust but really some that talks is going to be fairly safe... No fear is good and sort out intentions more than worrying about what others think.

This could be stop-start in the fediverse, hard and fast more than slow maybe to catch when people are free - or just whatever is overall better than waiting too long or thinking going for that one shot is going to work.

I'm conscious this is all text so welcome more audible commentary.

Last thing perhaps is that we are also getting over-educated as I'm finding people know already and just need pushing into something else rather than talking (to do something).
Those that don't know are not looking and are also not looking for various reasons which won't help them when told... including not looking for any fights... and even running away...

Your list is good.