A new person, more hope.

If you have done this process enough you realise this is not always going to be the 'one' (the person with enough self-belief or whatever you're looking to ping-pong something into something else).

Disinterest or disconnection becomes quite normal / frequent (it's part of the seeking).

For me I don't disconnect, I know everyone is imperfect at it will be apparent at the middle or end... but still accepting imperfection I feel is better than feeling bad about the person not being perfect or saying they like this more than that.

So you just have to accept "maybe" it's the next person or maybe the next 100,000 we meet along the way. And maybe literally you have to DIY trying best you can.