Benefits of talking and almost random conversation... (almost the secret benefits in this post!...)
The mixture of self-exploring -at the same time allowing others tio do the same means you allow and achieves some asynchrony* and synergy* (meanings follow):
asynchrony - The relation that exists when things occur at unrelated times (in context of meeting randomly or regularly when you feel to talk and catch up that feels good after and +)
synergy - to produce an effect greater than the sum of their individual effects alone
I come to the conclusion most people are locked in various ways and that because less fertile... people can't see why to do something not 'seen' (in the eye sense) until you start talking and multiplying opening and interest...
I don't want to judge anyway but present my findings from talking- and if you test it ( as ALL STEM should do ) then you can 'see' (hear) for yourself the genuine people and benefits of talking about whatever you want...
But I notice these things stopping you:
- Being wary of people (overall or a combination or people and 'people on the internet'
(so people are skeptic / distant when coming to use people + technology. My preferred way is
a) being aware yourself
b) going for it and see what happens (and judge-at-the-end of test)
c) take what good you can good - I do think alternative views fragment and defragment thoughts where bubbles tend not to or are not challenging enough in a friendly way
I do friendly chat, I do it safe and transparent as possible without needing to tell the whole world either - it's for you to also create conversation... so this is my invitation but I will call it your 'test' opportunity and ability to say "It's shit I tried and tested it" as STEM or as a person in the world caring about whatever you care about (what you care about is usually important that anything else).
QUESTIONS (OPEN TO ALL - STEM ALSO)
Can you articulate what you care about?
Do you want to practice safely and see how this text actually transforms into good feeling?
End note:
If you can type a direct message and consider an audio-only chat soon after (like in 10mins or 1 hours) then would you mind getting in touch?
