@gabriel
This is all healthy in my opinion and I'm not even too worried about it - I just sent him disconnection warning at least as graceful disconnect :)

This is towards more healthy outcomes. I did some work for him and he wasn't interested in mentioning the rest... whatever.

Again text can make all this seem so bitchy but you have to also realise the limits of text and negatives (and actual believe in me a bit more !)

This text is like 'this way would be much better for humanity and even save time' and 'even the greats could learn from each other's mistakes'

So somewhat 'name and shame' is there naturally as living together but I would say that that is better and overrides things nicely (more than saying it's a 'famous person' that didn't reply)...
and nothing really personal was said / no details really...

If life is always an exchange (as part of life) I'd rather say why overall life is xyz or how it's poor constructively for others.

AND I do mention positive points like being responsive and the ping-pong of many emails which is excellent 10/10 even if wasted repetition / ignoring / illogical use of his obvious scarce but intentionally spent energy (felt like my dad not knowing how to manage emails)

I honestly think people won't fix up from people speaking out too... so just my thing.

The break-point / failures I call it out and have the reasons measurably for it. I count well and left to myself in conversation people should be aware it doesn't help others.

I call my own admin out on what they forgot about / ignore and survive well so why not Mr. Stallman ^-^

Nobody forgets me, I remind them well :)

If he wants he could say himself - it's also not for you or your place to feel bad for him. I wrote him don't worry! All is good - just not using his time well so I can't help him any more until he jumps into chat or writes differently.

Time is ticking if for unknown reasons and half-404 people selectively say things and don't even recognise your simple asking / pointing to things they IGNORED - really parts of my message were so really simple / soft / aligned free software things so I really have very much less doubt.

So with this mixed result and self-testimony in mind I think it's actually helpful to understand

and without being attacking to you the forward-looking attitude is what I'm looking for and think is better.

Time is now (also without doing bad work yes but also not ignoring it - lots of people doing bad comms - Stallman you've been called).