Other people can help each individual ask another to reconsider things with logic and reason.

And if it isn't with logic and reason and their heart isn't in it properly then they also remind us what isn't the way, or much less so...

No need trying to put ourselves always in between that to make it so personal. If it's heard, move on or choose which way you're going for without losing your cool.

***Hold your line***

Methodology does work long term.