JOBS ARE WRONG FOR RELATIONSHIP OFTEN (or shouldn't be everything)

- Doing things mostly related to a job will keep you time and effort boxed in like the whole mindset... so even socialising with colleagues can become 'WORK' and not relative to life (unless you are all going to lead a revolt or uprising!)

DOING OUTSIDE of your work can be really healthy as "time away from 'work' and 'family' towards expanding the mind / being able to express etc.

EXTENDED
WORK which is largely a slavery with a few benefits, but still controlled conditions

FAMILY is limited or already maxxed out, new and not-work/not-family people to able to talke more freely or not always related to them.