LIFE BALANCING
Reaching an understanding is different from "meeting half way"
Some people don't mind doing or giving more, or they are simply more able (abilities are different or feelings can be more or less etc)
It's usually other standard like money or numbers that force things when really if someone has many apples or has the feeling to give then people should not get in the way or have some way to balance it (I can also imagine people working too much or giving too many apples but I think overall it's a hindrance to have everything as number and not the more human inaccuracies that can be balanced / discussed some other way)