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CONNECT OR DISCONNECT
(OR THE MIDDLE?)

As I see it there is a fine line between friend and foe or connect and disconnect...

and it's proportionate to what we have been taught and not taught (this can measured / see by the system we are in and our individual experiences to confirm that somewhat)

So if we as societies came from capitalism + warlord based + number-only thinking ways (mostly) then it's no surprise for some of this.. and why I mention this is because even people working together can quickly dissipate over some small differences because of not planning ever to have talk before or making space or doing any homework... and if I add my own bias (sorry) then it's just code code code and not human practise and at the end we just have machine code with project going up and down.. (and actually many do much better than this ^^) but still they are not able to something less than all or nothing (the title of this post)... which I guess is learning by talking about it... or even being inclusive to other like-minded followers and even friends who can't code so much... still ti's exclusive / not working towards inclusiveness...

If feels a bit harsh but I know whatever we do it's going to need just about *everyone* !

What we have been taught as 'job' misdirected as standards and luxury we have grow to expect all come into this and harmonising out of that (balancing / accepting people have troubles) is not what jobs are designed for (jobs as a construct is like making bullets out of people and money)

So again without distraction, us all accepting *those* things is very much like a bad chess game, BUT it's what we've been given and can't pretend it's fair, but can live with eyes open and communication allowed a bit more. (this would save people just disconnecting and even solving things).

Again I can't say if this Captain thought "it's not worth more trouble" but this is a common thought for people even in their own jobs / position / family.. so I put more weight on many of these things that are untrained / less prastised / heavier emotional people stuff and even baggage we could help carry for others and even solve...

Sorry if it's long but the complex problems always are.

Messaging people every day and even people on Mastodon proves certain things to me
(very good things too)