@cambridgeport90@indieweb.social ABOUT PUBLIC SHAMING /
(NAMING THE HABITS / EXPERIENCES)

I openly suggest constructive shaming but only after trying to sort it out but if you only get a door in your face constantly or closed loop- say it and anonymise most of it.

I understand the dangers but opt for the non-killing route of mentioning what is actually killing us (so actually the 'shaming' is the acceptance of society not being 'there yet' and it can be measurable too rather than beating up individuals... which I might add do often know what they are doing too and not innocent which is how the innocent people let this slide not wanting a fight... so it's up to us to fight nicely too to prevent such things )

The behaviour of people (society) has long gone on to actually feed the monsters or simply not allow us to be corrected also (!) which is all in the mentality, the technology (text-only talking or example can be very bad) OR just have choice to see it from other people's squabbles to do better i one's own... IT IS NOT AVOIDABLE DEAR READER!

So by my bringing it nicely out and even mentioning who (after talking with them first or for example being ignored) then it's a service somewhat or conversion from lack of elsewhere to be heard / learned from.

Long-term we see what's what in the world as signals coming to us all and *you* have a more of the reality or just skill-up and deal with it nicely when misunderstanding happens or comes to you....

Examples range from people saying excuses which directly contradict themselves or give time to others but saying they have 'no time' when clearly they have years ahead of them... then the whole not wanting to talk about it when you call their bluff...
or when they call my bluff they realise I am a real person and I ask them to talk about it and they decline.
This is basically the incremental stuff not happening in the world.
And people think it's a big fight, just can't hold themselves...

On top of that add the fires of not knowing how life is run (banks / gov tag-teaming us like pimps) and Disneyland type dreamland (about projects, marriage, you-name-it relationship) and you get a society that hasn't got a clue either who is running things or what's needed to fix it which inevitably comes out in conversation and needs better alignment.

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We need to accept the bad starts we've been given.
Even the incomplete chess set we've been given and the pieces we all have to scramble together best we can...

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Do have courage, test yourself and be brave. Else let others run your freedom.