phrase: "Cut off the nose to spite the face"

It takes skill basically to balance things and feelings 《--- a needed evolution else it is war (diluted or direct)

I believe people have different ability so therefore as long as in good faith (not taking the puss) then different people can do different things in various longevity or strength (like different animals and different personality)

Important is to see the personality also as most systems see you as body only/mostly and try to fit you into a matrix of repetition when different people like it differently... but hey try telling a machine with rigid design to customise itself to the human using it! It can't unless the managers of machines relax and don't expect people to keep up with the machine!