if there is one thing people really dislike, even if their true identities aren't revealed, it's being written about. i hear it's a common problem for writers that their friends, family and lovers don't like being in autobiographies or being the inspiration for fictional characters. one of my cousins called it talking behind people's backs when i showed her some posts about her, but it's more that i post about my day, my joys and my sorrows, and sometimes, my day includes people...