I get the impression (from twitter posts) people are confused by the fact there are numerous servers.
I tried to give a jargon free response
You can join any server, maybe one that shares one of your interests, you can the find people on other servers who share your interests and connect with them.
also gave them a link to trunk and my own fedi id so they can find me if needed.
@zleap People aren't confused about it, they're stressed out about it. They don't want the choice, it's not helpful to them.