thinking about the time when I asked a masc-presenting guy what their pronouns were and they replied "uhhhhhhhhh.......... " (long pause, then very softly) "he/him" (normal voice) "but really just use whatever, I don't mind, also I go by a female name online and exclusively roleplay female characters. there's no reason for that though I just think they look better. aesthetically."

I'm not joking this is actually what they told me