You don't have to keep tabs on what antis are doing, you don't have to be looking out for the next big youtube video bashing MAPs, and you don't have to reply to every hate comment you get. Even though it's tempting - I understand that - you *never* absolutely have to do any of this. If you find that you spend a lot of time and energy on these people, please start to step away from them more often. Focus on your friends and hobbies, whatever makes you happy, more often than you focus on things that put you in a crappy mood.

Antis want to infuriate you, they want to make your life more difficult, and the #1 thing you can do to stop giving them what they want is to not pay them any mind. Just do your own thing and live your own life without compromising your valuable energy and happiness.