@3x10to8mps Hopefully, this helps:
Having moved from St. Louis to Orlando, I've found that cities on either coast tend to be much more accepting and diverse than anywhere in the heartland.
Even here in red Florida, the cities are bastions of liberalism fighting the red tide.
Tourist destinations are also good choices for this: Due to the exposure to people and cultures from all around the world, people tend to be more open to different ways.
Plus, there are meet-up groups to find people with similar interests *all over* so the only way to be lonely in a city is to not try.