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@SrRochardBunson @AdmiralFrosty I don't recall him mentioning Lewis but then it has been a long time since I read the book. But funny you should mention Lewis, it was one of his books (along with a few others) that helped get me into that whole mess in the first place. I was not real good at critical thinking back then, so I fell for Lewis's trilemma.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lewis%27s_trilemma
Of course now I realize that when someone says you only have a certain number of options regarding how you think about something or someone, there are almost always more options, and the person who says that is trying put your thinking into a constrained box, so they can lead you into thinking as they do!