I'm so sorry you have had to experience this and that the responsible people on social media were so utterly irresponsible!
Some silly cü*t tried to dox me over something I said on Twitter. He "ordered" me to delete it then when I told him to f-off (the way you would), he contacted my "employer" to report me to them.
He overlooked the fact that by then, I had already been retired for several years. My sometime employer told me that they had been contacted by some self-righteous, waffling twat and that they told him in no uncertain terms, to f-off and mind his own business!
@Paulos_the_fog My personal circumstances were similar - no harm job-wise from the doxxing - but I know the details of far too many more that were horribly "effective" to dismiss it.