The rampant insecurity and inability to understand regular people that Elon Musk displays daily comes from exactly where it would appear to, his own personal issues.

The upcoming Walter Isaacson bio of Musk details his background as a bullied neuro-divergent kid who was showered with money instead of taken to therapy. https://dnyuz.com/2023/09/09/elon-musk-wants-to-save-humanity-the-only-problem-people/