@sciedhenry @roseveleth my approach has been very similar. I will add a couple of additional pieces. In one case I accomplished the goal I set out in a particular career pursuit (to turn an unprofitable business around into a profitable one) and was ready to move on. In another case I had an opportunity presented that I thought I could not pass up (school administrator).
As I got older and a little wiser I also listened to people who knew me well, and helped me see more broadly in ways that I was blinded to, and around my blindspots. This has probably been most helpful and has kept me out of pursuing a tenure track position while keeping me in teacher Ed where my heart is.