When a problem occurs, remind people not to fix each others behavior but the hazardous environment that enabled it in the first place.
Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.
This cultural thing is grounded deep down in held beliefs and takes deliberate effort to overcome.
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@gregorriegler This hit home because i had some situations where i thought "Don't criticize the people with little resources for their trauma response"
@admitsWrongIfProven Guilt counters healing and change for better