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funny how this guy accuses me of harassment and doesnt bother to actually give a screenshot or a post... either way I do feel deeply sadened he feels this way and apologize.
That said I went through my entire search history, literally every interaction I ever had with him. Literally all of it is overwhelming examples of me supporting him and being nice and doing everything I could to be kind and welcoming to him... not one exmaple of nastiness. Here are tthe examples:
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103611927414971482
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103875635455378427
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103540475812695955
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103755299304947793
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103895288785997479
https://qoto.org/@freemo/103687371610964915
I could literally list 100 more positive interactions of me reaching out trying to be nice and supportive and cant find a single one of me "attacking" him.
No reports, no issues of harassment, just me flooding him with niceness and one day I find us blocked.
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@freemo "Ah, Sir delights in mocking pronouns - that's it, Mister, the pup is blocking you."
Funny how something like that can bring people to just shut off all contact. I do not know if it was the reason, but it is discussed there.
Wonder what their beef with Alex Gleason is, they didn't mention.
@admitsWrongIfProven I have never mocked pronouns.. I set my pronouns as sir and mister, not as a mocker, but if others can ask for pronouns like Xe and Xer outt of respect I can ask for sir and mister out of respect.. not a mockery, a request for respect, and I generally try to respect others pronouns as well.
@freemo I did not intend to convey that you did anything wrong. It was sarcasm, as parents that are upset with their child sometimes say "mister" (as far as media tells me).
I would not dwell on it. If someone shuts you out and continues to do so if you ask why nicely, it is sometimes best to just let them be seperate.
@admitsWrongIfProven I have no issue with him going on being in his walled garden honestly... I have more issue with him spreading lies about me "harassing" him publicly without bothering to show the actual examples (which would only discredit him)
@freemo Ah, so it is because you think further than the next meal, not because there is any direct abuse against you right now. Ok, that is a good thing.
@admitsWrongIfProven Yes thats correct, no direct abuse against me that I know of. Tons of people saying nasty shit, but luckily as part of their own little circle jerk without tagging me....
@freemo Let's hope the people who are told "qoto bad" at least talk to us. I think we can't do much good until that happens.
@admitsWrongIfProven Sadly the pattern of behavior is they dont... they dont even do due dilligance.
@freemo Only time can tell... unless we block time because of spamming. Sounds strange, but i did have a conversation with Lucifar about it: https://qoto.org/@lucifargundam/109366887045201662
@admitsWrongIfProven because lies spread and turn people against me or the instance as they do. This has consequences for us.