@special-boy bf and I are above average IQ, hopefully leading to children with above-average IQ.
but we will not be earning so well with the careers we are aiming for. and we might never be able to afford a house with a garden or whatnot in the current market (like 600,000EUR here).
we will be able to pay for private kindergarten, but probably not for a private school. and public schools in Germany are the fucking worst. I do not want to expose my kids to that.