@sim Schools, growing from their original purposes of being a place of learning to a place of socalizing, usually have a state-sanctioned child protection services that may be inclined to intervene in a child's personal life. Usually to save them from neglectful, abusive or unhealthy households, often without directly contacting the parents as doing so could potentially cause the case to be close. This is normally fine, I don't think a lot of people will object to the state fostering children away from parents whom beat them senselessly. It just so happens to apply to trans idenitiy... which isn't really seen as legitimate.