bonifartius 𒂼𒄄 @bonifartius@social.cleverlibre.org

@saxnot zum thema bosch grün: ich habe diverse alte (80er/90er) bosch geräte geerbt, die tun noch 1a :) ich glaube aber damals gabs da auch noch gar keine unterschiedlichen produktlinien.

@saxnot ja, makita macht insgesamt einen ganz guten eindruck.

die pfanne ist "Bratino" von ELO, wenn ich das jetzt richtig rausgesucht habe: https://www.elo.de/de/produkte/pfannen/antihaft-pfannen/item/bratino-bratpfanne.html

@saxnot generell ist mein tip einfach mal im "profi" segment gucken. da gibts teilweise sachen die ewig halten zu sinnvollen preisen. haben dann meistens auch keine blödsinnigen features die nur kaputtgehn.

@saxnot pfannen müssen nichtmal teuer sein damit sie was taugen, ich hab hier so eine ausm supermarkt für 13€, aber "made in germany". ist halt sehr dünnes aluminium (da wurd gespart), aber das teflon hält. am besten ist aber eh immernoch eine ordentliche eisenpfanne, die sind echt unkaputtbar. im zweifelsfall alles mitm stahlschwamm ab und neu einbrennen.

@saxnot und das kabel ist ewig lang, da muss man selbst bei ner größeren wohnung fast nie umsteckern.

@saxnot zu staubsaugern: kauft euch was professionelles, z.B. einen kleinen nilfisk. die gibts mit HEPA filter für ~100€. hat dann keine automatische kabelaufrollung, dafür ist aber alles robust und die beutel sind mindestens doppelt so groß wie bei "normalen" saugern.

@m0urs exakt diese vermutung habe ich langsam auch. es ist auch zugegebenermaßen ein wenig unheimlich wie viele prognosen der sogenannten "schwurbler" wahr geworden sind. nachlassender bis negativer impfschutz, vielzahl an nebenwirkungen, halbjährliche booster, impfpflicht (ob durch die hintertür oder nicht).

@m0urs irgendwer hier im fediverse hat mal, allerdings im bezug auf impfpflicht in den usa sinngemäss geschrieben: wir wollen nur in ruhe gelassen werden. wenn ihr uns weiter wegen einer impfung das leben ruiniert, müsst ihr euch nicht wundern wenn es in lynchmorden endet.

20-30% der bevölkerung zu unterdrücken _wird_ böse enden. jetzt schon ist der gesellschaftliche schaden durch die spaltung nicht mehr abzusehen. jeder der einmal diese erfahrung gemacht hat, wird für sehr lange zeit diesen staat hassen oder ihm mindestens misstrauen (zu sehen in anderen diskriminierten gruppen).

das wäre ohne unnötige propagandamaschine komplett vermeidbar gewesen.

@FailForward @zleap @thor @shibao @evelyn

sure there are some activities, but they aren't always catering for everyone. some people just don't like most sports, if you are already depressive you don't really want to participate in something with a focus on competition (at least from my own experience). compate playing something PvP like dota or league of legends vs. playing PvE like deep rock galactic or left for dead. the pvp communities tend to be quite "competitive" (as in assholes ;)
i never really liked work activities because it always felt a bit "forced". you are there for getting money, after all.

@FailForward @zleap @thor @shibao @evelyn
i think the real issue is that our societies are so complex that the mentioned "doing together" isn't easy to do. where ever it is done (sports) is purely artificial. problematic for mental health may be that as i've written i think men require more personal trust in whomever they tell their problems about. i'm not sure how to fix this or what this means for a mens heath blog because there aren't many opportunities for real teamwork in a capitalist system essentially based on concurrence.

@zleap @thor @shibao @evelyn @FailForward

i think men have a very specific mental health problematic.

you are on one hand expected to "just deal with it". nobody wants to hear those issues (aside from a really close friend). on the other hand, society shoves the "mEn aRe sUpPosEd tO bE wEaK nOw" agenda in your face.

you have to be manly man and wimp at the same time, which is a hell on it's own.

telling someone to "be soft, show your feelings" is saying "haha, i _know_ you are a weak loser, you might even just show it".

the reason it is bullshit isn't that men aren't supposed to show their feelings. the reason is that it is expected of men to show their feelings _in the same way_ as women to.

which makes no fucking sense for men!

i'll just take literature as an example, because i think it can quite well convey this: nearly every classic epic has _cameradry_ in it. be it something from ancient greece or LotR. this is a quite specific behavior of men.

if you have problems, you can tell your trusted friends in private. _by the gods_ you will be hard to outsiders, because it is essential for the "survival" of the group.

what is now expected of men is to show their feelings of self-doubt, sadness etc. to the world. men probably just can't do that without further damaging their self-image, and i think it's to a large part biological.

you don't have to be an unemotional asshole caring about no one to be a masculine, quite the contrary. a good man _is_ caring about others, explicitly also other men. the classic strong pat on the back (which women hate) is affection - hey, i have your back! girlfriend quit you? let's get hammered together! close relative died? shit, can i help you with something?

this doesn't mean that there isn't a plethora of shitty behavior which men may have, but i think in the end it might very well be out of a dynamic in which they _don't_ have someone to talk about their feelings and no one watching their back.

i think men take strength out of _doing_ things together, while women tighten their bonds by talking about their feelings. neither one is better than the other. taking away these mechanisms is harmful.

which is exactly what our societies do. there are no goals for groups-of-men anymore, except in sports and activism. the thing most of men have to spend their time on is work, which by now is a completely egoistical environment. you have no unifiying cause, the cause is making money for the man.