I don't know why it isn't even a moderate view presently to think that "maybe an entire population being actively bombed shouldn't be cut off from water, electricity, food, fuel, and basic humanitarian aid"

That's not just "defending yourself"

@cwebber This is not about defense or humanitarian aid. It's about the horror of being forced to feed and otherwise service a group of people, where some of them are right now and right there abusing (the word isn't strong enough, but let's keep it at that) people from your group.