@olamundo Yea exactly. I dont see sex as bad, or to be avoided.. Only that it seems oddly placed as a criteria for whom you might want to spend a lifetime with. I enjoy my time with people I've never had sex or was interested in sex from them more than most people I've had sex with.

It makes more sense to just be around who you like being around, and fuck who you like fucking, and who cared if or when the two overlap or not.