Thats fine.. look if your ok with the fact that they got on 33 block lists simply for wanting a system with more transparency and evidence, if you think that is a system that works better than "all evidence will be public".. then by all means, stick with it.
The UFoI is **not** intending to be a dictator or forcing anyone into it. If you dont join the UFoI you will interact with the UFoI members just as you always did, on a case by case basis... IF you join and want a system where accusations are heard fairly, transparently, and both sides get to present their evidence, then join.
No one is forcing you to join, noting about the system hurts you (as the rules are designed to not effect instances outside of the UFoI)... so while I understand you may not want to join you really have to wonder why anyone would be so violently opposed to someone else joining, especially when its one of their own, a member of the LGBTQ community who clearly did nothing wrong....the way they were treated was wrong and IMO shows the very problem that needs correcting.. but again if thats a problem you think isnt a problem, then no one is stopping you from not joining...
> I just don't get what you're trying to do
To this point its simple.. I'm trying to create a fediverse where t1c doesnt wind up on 33 block lists for doing absolutely nothing wrong other than wants to improve a system and make it better.