I follow a lot of admins.

We don’t always agree, but I respect what you do.

And I’m not on the team that does “third party” blocks. By which I mean, “You don’t block X so I’m blocking you.”

There are user safety reasons why other admins might choose differently.

Suffice it to say, people start up servers for different reasons. So ultimately you need to find an admin you align with, and that’s your ideal server.