@jwildeboer @aral
Agree - and not hating here but these are all the things if you want to become obscure / unclear to people:

For a while mentioned politely how things seem self-serving emotionally and circular (self-feeding)

Posts were very unclear / misleading and NEVER GOT RESPONSE ABOUT IT.

So while which we allow each other a lot of emotional output just looking at his posts it seems he went off on one whole series and then not responding to a wide range of things or saying why also is also not healthy

But anyway without hating the above way is FOR SURE NOT THE WAY.

Summary:
1- Emotional self-feeding + Y/N questions to obvious big feelings about events to get obvious answers back (some is ok, some anger building)
2- Unclear asking questions or what actual the discussion is (it's not obvious if it's throw-away comment or rhetorical or deep or asking for help or not or sarcasm or anger or 100 things)
3- Answering someone like this and can get that person saying "NO! I didn't mean that you dummy" and feeding more of whatever is bugging them.... (not saying it's 100% Aral here but it's a bit like "walking on egg-shells" with the mis-direction / lack of clarity)

- SO YES CLICKBAITING and without much use in terms of knowledge or even honing precisely on the point
- JUST UNCLEAR AND UNRESPONSIVE