A page that says things well as advice for those getting into marriage or relationship. Even if I don't subscribe to all of it (you can reduce the God parts of if you want) the advice overall is good for people to understand themselves and each other BEFORE marriage NOT AFTER!

LOLS TO THE PARENTS AND US IF WE DON'T DO SOME HARDCORE COUNSELLING BEFORE!

" A couple preparing to walk down the aisle together most certainly should experience intensive marriage counselling, the kind that teaches you all about each other as well as God’s plan and purpose for marriage.

And, should red flag issues become apparent during marriage counselling, be prayerfully and boldly willing to make the decision to NOT get married.

Despite the fact I have shared my standing with different counsellors, even preachers and devoted Christian friends, I must admit I continued to struggle to find a perfect fit, a genuine Confidential Encourager...

[goes on about finding someone to talk to - my advice is talk to more than one, single or married for life... I'm always ready to tell you about relationship in a measurable way AND customise it a bit to you! ]

originally from
Taylor James Albert
http://teatimewithtaylor.com/category/confidential-encourager/

I honestly feel each and every single one of us has at some good points to say on this