More than 1 talk with someone is needed to understand what they say or the topic in question.
Often topics involve more things around it or component parts to it.

Pushing that is often pushing yourself which can be good but needs permission and balance with others if you're going to attempt to learn like that. In general finding a nice flow helps learning, not by crashing into things or emotionally saying but this... but that... see what the person is presenting more.

Expect not to learn everything in 1 session or sitting...

Often I tend to get the feeling that 10seconds is all people have and they feel I should be able to say it perfectly or they should get it perfectly (sending, receiving, interpretation). YES people can say it better but keeping your emotions as less of an ultimatum to learning is what REALLY HELPS another just continue to next sentence which might help or ask to jump in!

It's reassuringly normal to learn as you go along...

It's always good to think of it as on-going / evolving / incrementing process, and rewards are in various amounts naturally (not everything is equally rewarding but needs time either way).

Don't think badly if it's not clear at first, just know expecting a lot or putting too much focus on 1-shot kills can take away from the enjoying and coming back to revisit things and actually get best from it.

Often 1-shot or short understanding is missing a whole bunch of stuff,.. and that will 100% lead to more emotional things without understanding much at the end.