Relationships are like puzzle pieces, It's unavoidable to go through feelings so YOU MUST Go THROUGH them if your really into any relationship! (It's hard to hear 'you must', I don't like it but I mean more that left or right all ways go the same, feeling, experience, adjustment, comms, everything!)

Don't bee too defensive - time also passes not too great that!

We just have to try some pieces together, some hit and miss but do continue if you believe in yourself ! (you find more when you're ok with yourself and not fighting or comparing yourself with others)

Some pieces of the puzzle will match some not, but it's the ambience and civility I think while playing together that makes the pieces more possible - no assuming first time you're going to hit it off... and smiling when it's difficult and thinking about it.

According to me, if you find someone exactly like you then also expect some feelings of challenge like putting two magnets of the same polarity... or misunderstanding or fireworks, and then a bit more time you realise wow actually there are quite unique!

It's uncomfortable for some people who can't make a REAL relationship semi-deep so I wrote this as it's just a smile and get along kinda thing and letting everything grow.

It's just like not being too precious also... and living it by allowing others and everyone a bit of real talk :)