Respect differs from person to person. This is the basis for this piece of sentiment that it's different but can be the same (it's still respect, the differing is less important as long as people respect what they do more often).

The fact that people have respect should be the main thing which can unite us. Not only looking at the bad whic serves pessimism to fuel itself (that's why many bad things are kept as it fuels more bad things / is circular)

NOT having someone match your respect 100% doesn't mean they are disrespecting. There is another peg or slot people fit into which is live an animal that is different to another...
One animal, though no fault of it's own. cannot or doesn't value so much in some another animals realm or domain or naturally from it's ability.
This analogy of human being like different animals (or having different preferences and skills) means each person may look like a human but act according to their own animals philosophy, experiences, exposure, natural ability, ability to learn etc...
People naturally have preference for some types of fields more than others who have a different field. And not everyone can learn all the fields... so while we level each other up I think we can focus on our super-power or main skill without ignoring the practise of other 'stuff'. This need a kind of person a bit more dedicated / a coach / advisor etc... without going to far into either...

Just know when you not respecting this or that field and top up involvement.

The 'mismatch' for respect I feel is natural *should* be expected accordingly.

NOT expecting to have 100% is a kind of perfectionism or even discrimination, mild fascism if it's not accepting a person of their own sovereign being or animal trait.

Much like people hate someone but after a few drinks can get to like them, after they might say "Ah yeah he's still a dickhead but he's fairly harmless or like ABC at least"

To hate people being different is different to loving that people probably like more than what you see or has onion skins naturally not visible. So not to feel too offended, to try and accept and even not push too hard to explore.

Let the animal come out, you can't force it out always, then share or encourage it with a cup of tea and show parts of yourself and what you're about if you can balance if they are going to gossip or not.

If people have a different set of respect for things it is good respect in itself is the overall residue I value.

Respect can also bee seen as as like a equaliser visual for volume levels for each thing

Another analogy could be bar a level of respect someone has for each category or unique situation, which needs learning (it's not clear by text or computers).