@MRECheese
I just remembered something else that was difficult for someone to talk about so might be similar and might help see it from someone else's view or another context ( or just as small story if this example fails )

So I was explaining to a lady about suicide and immediately she was adverse to the whole idea of it or perhaps even dying (for what you believe in) and whether that happens in small amount or accumulates to bigger consequences.. so suicide is natural if 100 things are always bad and kept that way or if you have 0 voice... But this lady could accept anyone should suicide so we were stuck for a long while in that first dip of acceptance / theoretical possibility.
So as an example I thought for a second that the similarity here was how the dog licking a child's dick brought up an immovable wall to see past the rest (or whatever you saw / see that causes offense... and naturally it's hard to even accept part of it thereafter (I don't know what you saw but reality is that there various animals on animals, characters, parody type stuff, and mixtures so not just that highly questionable stuff with children)

So nicely I wanted to ask, is that similar in any way?